Help Me Find Someone Please

[Adulese]

Dude you're young. You'll feel like that dozens of times. Just need to learn to step up sooner is all. There will be others trust me. If you still feel like pursuing it, go for it but just take it easy. It's not like the world is going to end in a week. (*knocks on wood*)

Actually the world doesn't end till 2012. That is when Bungie Takes over. ^.^

isnt this a armor/prop making forum not a dating forum....we dont know you that well to try to find someone for you

Yes it is and I agree.

I second that.

Third. I'm getting good at this.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...iendID=94902755
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http://www.thegatheringhome.org/app/w_page...ction&id=68

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...endid=241142355

I loved the first one. xD

All you gotta do is go to every single post office in Englewood, CO and ask all male workers, "Do you have a daughter named heather?"

You'll find her, otherwise if you stalk her online, she'll think your creepy.

"Can I help you?"

"Yes, do you have a daughter named heather"

"......Are you here to ship a package or buy stamps?"

"......no...this is awkward :\"

And the winner of the Worlds Most Awkward Moment in the World is ...

But yall are the same age?

Yes, but he is from Aussie. They age differently. Trust me, I have several friends from that area. They are all going for the sheilas early so none of the good ones are taken.

- End Catch Up -
Personally, I have had several of the same experiences when I lived in Orlando. I say, forget about it. However, if your that into her, I suggest trying to go as SLOW as possible with this (not speed wise). You don't want to freak out the mailmen. They have pepper spray ... and anti-dog weapons ... plus those sacks weigh a ton. Good luck dude.

- Adulese

 

[a1200]

I wouldnt say it like that... and SHE was hitting on ME, that doesnt happen.... Anyhow, ill probably head to CS this sunday!


I meant to quote this statement: "I can still tell you that it's not going to be the best idea to find her.

'Hi Heather... I saw you at Projekt Revolution 4 weeks ago and have spent the past couple of weeks trying to find you.'

In my experience, girls will either think you are a stalker, or you are that crazy.

Either way, it's still not good."

And i never said i had to date her, you have no idea how many girls i am friends with because of similar situations(usually not out of the vity though hehe)

 

[SGT Razor]

Oh, man, you remind me of myself. You've talked to this girl once and you think she's the one for you. Then you try to find her and wish you had made your move. Years later, you find out she did like you and she knew you like her, but she was also sleeping with three other guys at the same time. I'm not saying she's doing that or anything like it, but that was my experience. Oh man was I pathetic then. I'm pathetic now, but at least I try after going through that. I don't mean to discourage you. By all means, look, but all you're gonna do is waste time and effort. Almost every girl you'll date, you'll end up breaking up with -- no matter how beautiful, smart, or funny she is. My advice is: Don't. Just move on and learn from your mistakes. That's what experience is all about. That's what this site is all about.

I'm sorry this happened to you, but now you know what to do next time. Don't blow it next time you have an opportunity like this. I know what you're going through and if you need to talk about it, you know where to find me. I wish I had someone to talk to when I went through that stage...

you have no idea how many girls i am friends with because of similar situations

Oh yes I do. I do... Turns out they were better as friends then they would be as my girlfriends. You have to look at female companions as sisters, not future girlfriends. Things will turn out better that way. First you start out as friends, then when the time comes, you tell her. You may be nervous, but at least you know how the other feels. It's hard, I know, but it's well worth it. Sorry, I'm trying to solve multiple problems at once. Good luck!

-Friendly, dating specialist. <---lol

EDIT: Normally I would say, "Google is your friend," but...

 

[fruitcake612]

Yes, but he is from Aussie. They age differently. Trust me, I have several friends from that area. They are all going for the sheilas early so none of the good ones are taken.

Such a stereotype...

 

[a1200]

I havent even been on a date hehehe, im the "just friends" kinda guy


I put that afterwards to make it seem like im fine with that!

BTW, i never said she was the one for me... but i keep hearing all of you say that

 

[SGT Razor]

I havent even been on a date hehehe, im the "just friends" kinda guy
I put that afterwards to make it seem like im fine with that!

I swear, you're a younger version of me.

BTW, i never said she was the one for me... but i keep hearing all of you say that

Sorry, that's just the way I felt. "The missing piece to my puzzle," to quote myself. So cliche... but then again, I was fourteen.

 

[Dreadnought]

I tend to steer away from having a GF. No, before you flame me I'm not gay. I go to High School, a place where having a GF that you just might marry and be with for years is most likely on a 1:1,000,000 ratio. Chances are your going to date her for awhile, find out that the few days you spent with each other were the best days of your relationship and now things are getting boring and you might as well just break-up. I'm not one to go into a relationship where we are just fooling around and calling ourselves a couple because we just happen to have a few common interests, I would like something a little more serious then that (I know, I'm weird). Considering I would like to land a job that pays good money in the future I have more focus in school then I do in trying to impress women into dating me. Though I have had GFs in the past I started kicking myself in the ass in the 9th grade, and got in gear with school. I started to go out with friends less and my GF moved away to NY. This increased my GPA from a 1.9 to a 4.1 as I focused more with school. Now of course I'm a lazy bastard and some of this doesn't apply to some people, though for some reason I just felt like stating my opinion on the whole thing.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you are a young bastard (Like me). Chances are that you won't be with this girl for long wither it be your or her fault. Sure have a GF, but don't put yourself though the trouble of finding this girl who you know nothing about and having the possibility that she was just playing with you, or has a serious problem that you don't like about her and later on you regret even going out with her. Then again, if you truly think she is 'The one' (Some people have that sense.....I sure as hell don't) it might be worth going to hell and back for. Though IMO, I would say just give up, chances of finding her are slim and there is always a chance you will meet her, or someone just as good again in the future.

Maybe this is why everyone tells me I'm a depressed soul. And why I think I'm one of the few people left with a functioning brain. I just don't get things these days -.-

 

[BlindRascal]

Woohhhh you're only 16... by the picture I thought you were much older...That could be kind of awkward.

 

[a1200]

Maybe this is why everyone tells me I'm a depressed soul. And why I think I'm one of the few people left with a functioning brain. I just don't get things these days -.-

Dont worry, im a melancholy guy too...



And the picture on my profile is from a distance, in my friends desert flecktarn, and in a cardboard APC(lol), in the middle of nowhere outside of Cheyenne


JK its not me, its a picture off of Yahoos article about Germany taking over NATO efforts in Kuwait


but there are two old pictures if me in the "post a pic of yourself" thread

 

[Dreadnought]

I was curious looking at that picture. I figured it was from the Black Templar from Warhammer 40k or Germany lol

 

[a1200]

Yeah, the most recent picture is the one on the pic of yourself thread, the one from Promotion

 

[BlacRoseImmortal]

Ok, I feel it necessary to hear soemthing from a girls point-of-view....

Let me start with saying... move on. Girls that age are wackos.... and guys your age really dont know what they want
There will be more in your future (dissapointments) for sure. Why? Because girls that age like to make boys squirm (muahahahaha).... it's just their nature.

My suggestion to you is to wait till your older to start focusing on dating...by older I mean, out of highschool. At least. By the time your 20ish your body and hormones will finally be settled down and you can see things better for what they really are. Same with woman, we are pretty much all psychotic until the age of 22ish.....

Though, not all people are the same. Of the above facts there may be a few that stray from those lines.


.... I hope some of that made sense....

 

[Roodkill]

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...iendID=94902755
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http://www.thegatheringhome.org/app/w_page...ction&id=68

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...endid=241142355

HAHAHAHAHAHA! Now we've got members doing a search for her!
I dunno, might be fun to organize a searching party on a global level for a girl none of us have yet, met,
seen, or even have a last name. Adam, it might be time for another Youtube vid: Master chief goes to the post
office.

On a serious note though, if you really want to find her there are several ways without calling the secret service.
Your best bet is to find out/ remember WHAT post office her dad worked in, call them, talk to him, tell him whats up.
(Then at the same time get Daddy's approval ) and then, God willing, the Rings will line up and take you to glory and salvation.


P.S- @ Dreadnaught- I totally agree with you and have the same ideals.
It took my almost 2 years longer than you to figure it out. I'm glad someone else said it.
(Except, I have a GF (first one ever) and we've been dating for 2 years)

@ spartan 117- *ahem* . . . HAHAW HAWHAWHA! *Hack!* Funny stuff man, funny stuff.
-Roodkill-

* EDIT: I put in "Heather Colorado Springs" in photobucket images and got this: Maybe it will help.

 

[Adulese]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Friendly @ Aug 16 2008, 02:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Oh, man, you remind me of myself. You've talked to this girl once and you think she's the one for you. Then you try to find her and wish you had made your move. Years later, you find out she did like you and she knew you like her, but she was also sleeping with three other guys at the same time. I'm not saying she's doing that or anything like it, but that was my experience. Oh man was I pathetic then. I'm pathetic now, but at least I try after going through that. I don't mean to discourage you. By all means, look, but all you're gonna do is waste time and effort. Almost every girl you'll date, you'll end up breaking up with -- no matter how beautiful, smart, or funny she is. My advice is: Don't. Just move on and learn from your mistakes. That's what experience is all about. That's what this site is all about.

I'm sorry this happened to you, but now you know what to do next time. Don't blow it next time you have an opportunity like this. I know what you're going through and if you need to talk about it, you know where to find me. I wish I had someone to talk to when I went through that stage...
Oh yes I do. I do... Turns out they were better as friends then they would be as my girlfriends. You have to look at female companions as sisters, not future girlfriends. Things will turn out better that way. First you start out as friends, then when the time comes, you tell her. You may be nervous, but at least you know how the other feels. It's hard, I know, but it's well worth it. Sorry, I'm trying to solve multiple problems at once. Good luck!

-Friendly, dating specialist. <---lol

EDIT: Normally I would say, "Google is your friend," but...</div>
Great advise Friendly. Looks like you may be the next Hitch. xD

Such a stereotype...

Actually, it isn't. I should have you get in touch with some of my friends. While they aren't so much like that, they know plenty of guys who do that. Plus, I love Aussie and plan to move/visit there whenever I get the chance.

I havent even been on a date hehehe, im the "just friends" kinda guy

Hey, your sounding a lot like me right now (except I have been on a couple "dates"). Sure we haven't met? xD

Ok, I feel it necessary to hear soemthing from a girls point-of-view....

Let me start with saying... move on. Girls that age are wackos.... and guys your age really dont know what they want
There will be more in your future (dissapointments) for sure. Why? Because girls that age like to make boys squirm (muahahahaha).... it's just their nature.

My suggestion to you is to wait till your older to start focusing on dating...by older I mean, out of highschool. At least. By the time your 20ish your body and hormones will finally be settled down and you can see things better for what they really are. Same with woman, we are pretty much all psychotic until the age of 22ish.....

Though, not all people are the same. Of the above facts there may be a few that stray from those lines.
.... I hope some of that made sense....

Good advise. I personally, don't have much time for girlfriends. With this coming school year (alll honors/AP) then getting ready for going to MIT 2 years early, plus my game developing, internet life and armor. Its just too much to have a GF in the mix, even if I would love to have someone like that. Good friends is all I am after right now, and I suggest you (meaning lover boy here) do the same.

- Adulese

PS: Doesn't help that most of the girls I have met are mostly egotistical/mean/preppy. -.- Hopefully, the people in the North aren't too much like that.

- Adulese

 

[rvb4life]

okay, i gotta say, this is pretty silly. we arent your personal army. Let it go, there are plenty of other beautiful ladies out there.


/thread, you sound really desperate.

 

[church 957]

My advice... give up and move on. I know that sounds pesimistic but as bad as you feel now it will get better.

 

[link4044]

Thanks to those of you who TRIED TO HELP

I asked for people who could help, not you optimistic pessimists(that sounds weird, but makes sense to me lol)

I think ill just go to CS!

and this isnt a armor making and prop making section forum, its a general discussion part of the forum

are you back talking me little dude?

 

[rvb4life]

dont think highly of it link, its not worth it.


again, you dont know where your heart is right now, your brain has to tell it to shut up sometimes. Trust me, I AM GOING NUTS RIGHT NOW, and it is because of......ugh......love. My advice- MOVE ON!!!!

 

[S1l3nt V1p3r]

a1200, listen to me very carefully... Are you settled? Good.


Long distance relationships NEVER work out. Trust me, I've been there and and done that. They specially won't work if you don't even know her. I spent 6 months talking to an awesome girl who lived far away, and the only reason we were together for 7 months after that, is because of how much we had in common and how much we talked about stuff. And I only saw her twice while we were seeing eachother! In the end she dumped me because of the distance... (If only I lived closer... *sigh*)

But there you have it. I'm just 16, but I probably have more experience about this than most teenagers at my age.

 

[a1200]

Id appreciate if you actually read the thread before posting on just the first statement... i already said not looking for relationship.
and Link, i hate to say this but just being a mod doesnt mean your always right(i feel my post getting closed)

and on another note, im headed to CS next saturday because there closed sunday lol