I Dont Know What To Say To Her

[darkm2021]

There's a girl that I like....



...alot...



... and i mean it...

... ALOT ...





anyway, i asked her out, she said maybe, next day i find out she has a bf, yada yada yada...



i was a bit upset, yes, but not quite that upset, about all that.

but NOOOW, i just found out that her bf is actually cheating on her...

... alot...



he is having a cheat fest, actually, he has cheated on her more than 5 times, and NONE of them know about it (cant keep it in his pants i guess)



I want to tell her, but she is already mad at me for telling her my feelings for her

I didnt know you could make a girl mad by sayin that she has eyes they are the perfect shade of green (hazel) and a beautiful smile that could make my life worth living, and that I wish I could just lie with her and watch clouds roll by in the sky



but she is already angry at me, and I am affraid that if I tell her, she will not believe me, just get more angry, and continue to ignore me... also, she seems to like him as much as i like her, and i dont want to hurt her by telling her this.





i do realize this is a halo prop making website

but i also realize that some people here have experience with this

i need help please

wht should i do?

 

[mc halo3]

i have been in this problem before as well ,ahhh...umm... if i were you i would tell her the truth ,but if she gets angry at you tell her that her BF is chaeting on her like 5 times ad if she says i hate you AND get out of my face ,then its over with trying to get her,theres heaps of other girls out there ,thats what you should tell her,if you dont tell her she will get supspious

 

[JSwift]

dude my suggestion is to forget her and her bf and his cheating. there's no use in getting caught up in a bunch of bullcrap. there are plenty of other girls and trust me she may seem "special" but you'll realize that you will be much better just removing yourself from that situation. just my 2 cents

 

[mc halo3]

yeah i agree just forget about her,theres tons of girls out there

 

[DreadMullet]

why? why are you coming here, do you not know? we are not here to give relationship advice, advice on life, or advice on armor... wait that last one we do advise on...



do you not remember the thread you posted 5 days ago? the one that got locked? if you have forgotten you can find it Here... you may notice that, this thread is almost identical to that one... what was the fate of the other thread? it is likely to end up being the same fate of this one.



oh oh, and there is also this one...



i advise you to start worrying more about school, and enjoying be young... once you are done with school, you will need to find a real job, and you may actually find that there is more to a woman than her looks... Maybe you will like someone for who they actually are?

 

[S1l3nt V1p3r]

Ask her why she got so mad about the compliment, and when/if she wants to you just go, tell her this:



"Okay, but I guess you're not aware that your BF is cheating on you? That is what I came here to tell you. I just thought you'd like to know."

Then you just walk away and forget about her. Let her take the fall, not you. You did nothing wrong. Move on with life!





And Dread, try to be a little more nice to these guys? We're not a dating site, true... But that doesn't mean love ain't important.

 

[Tahu]

Well, I agree with Dreadmullet. Even if love is important, the 405th does´nt deal with these kind of problems. That´s it, and this topic will only be locked.



/Tahu

 

[Tahu]

Well, I agree with Dreadmullet. Even if love is important, the 405th does´nt deal with these kind of problems. That´s it, and this topic will only be locked.



/Tahu

 

[Texan2012]

My advise is to tell her the truth then cut her out of your life. Trust me, there is plenty of time to find a gf after high school, and if you get into college, well, lets just say "target rich environment".

 

[SherryShortcake]

My point of view. So try not to pay too much attention.

I want to tell her, but she is already mad at me for telling her my feelings for her

If she's already mad at you, what do you have to lose?

I didn't know you could make a girl mad by saying that she has eyes they are the perfect shade of green (hazel) and a beautiful smile that could make my life worth living, and that I wish I could just lie with her and watch clouds roll by in the sky

Some girls (me included) dislike romantic talk from other guys that aren't their partner. I don't know how long you've known her, but yeah. You don't go saying that, especially if she's seeing someone. If they're single and you two have been going out? Sure. Before even going out? No.

but she is already angry at me, and I am afraid that if I tell her, she will not believe me, just get more angry, and continue to ignore me... also, she seems to like him as much as i like her, and i don't want to hurt her by telling her this.

If you tell her, she'll get pissed, not believe you and ignore you. Yet, deep down, she'll probably become skeptical. Then two things can happen. She finds out, or she doesn't.



If she does find out then 3 things can happen. 1. She goes to you saying "You were right all along" and try to re-start things (Don't have too much faith in that lol) 2. She tells her "BFF", looks for other guys and continues to ignore you. Or 3. She just because a lesbian and forgets guys altogether. (lol)



If she doesn't find out. Well... High school relationships are rarely serious relationships. What you could do I guess is stalk her in a Peter Parker way till you two are in college. Then try it out. lol



Actually don't stalk her. But if you want to really want to get a girl, just try being their friend first. Let things go from there. Don't rush things. If your friendship gets stronger (on both sides, not just you liking her more), then maybe you got something going.



P.S.:

i asked her out, she said maybe, next day i find out she has a bf, yada yada yada...

About 85% of the time I use the word "Maybe", it really means no. Why don't we say no then? To not hurt feelings. Next time a girl says "maybe", don't expect it. And try not to feel bad either. Most girls don't like hurting people's feelings. Unless the girl is a Scorpio. Then beware.



Back to the armor forum! kthxbai

 

[Xtreme TACTICS 101]

Ok, Im not going to lie to you. The truth is shes just playing around with you. Its like your the puppet, and shes the controller. At your age, girls have the ability to do that, easily. They like watching the guys drool over them and they like having fun seeing witch one deserves to be with her the most. Honestly, they can get prety nasty. Now, I have no clue how long you have liked her, but if you have had this crush for a few months, just drop it. Its most likely puppy love.



Honestly, I had the same experiance (But im 15, not 16). A girl I liked had a boyfriend who cheated on her with another girl, and knocked her up. The girl I liked found out, and she was heart broken. So, to be a good friend, I go over to her after a day or 2, and talk to her, see if shes alright. After a month, I told her how I felt about her. She goes all nice about it, and says she will think about it over the weekend. Now, when she comes back, guess what, my best friend and her are going out. So, I tell myself, talk to your best friend, nothing bad can happen. I go talk to him and hes like, "Dude, I had NO idea you liked her. You should have given me a warning, I would have backed off." Im like, "Man, its alright." So, I go back to thinking about this other girl who I liked, and I weighed the good and bad things of dateing the girl whos going out with my best friend, and that other girl. I found out that I liked that other girl WAY more then the first girl. We had everything in common, so, I go ask her out with by best buddies behind me, building me up giving me courage, and she says yes. Im standing there dumbstruck for 30 seconds, and all I can say is "Yea effin right". And shes like "Yea effin way. I've been waiting for you to ask me out for about 2 months now." So, here we are now, still happily in love 11 months later. And thats a true story.



Now, do you get what im saying? If you have had a crush on her for only a little while, see what happens (you already did) and if its a go, then there you are. If its not a go, then really think about it. Mabey you don't actually like that girl, and you like another way more. It happened to me, and I had a crush on the first girl for about 2 years, and the other I never realy thought about until I realised we were perfact for eachother.



Just kick back, and watch what happens. But, DO NOT tell her the boyfriend is cheating on her. Most likely, she will say "go the **** off" and not like you for some reason when you did her a favour. Then, you will have a slim to no chance for her.

 

[Bob the Giant]

like we say here in holland

Not a hand full of girls

But a land full of girls

 

[Overlord Ian]

Well, it depends... I suppose if she leaves her bf to be with you would she just do the same thing for someone else in the future? And if her BF is cheating on her, Im sure she'll find out one way or another, I wouldn't risk her getting more upset with you about it. And If it happens that you can't go out with this girl, then just move on with your life, Im sure someone you like even more will come along someday, just be yourself .



~Ian

 

[just me]

Go ahead in life.

Leave her and her cheating ******* bf.

(Or MAYBE you should consider talking to HIM instead of her, unless he is a 6feet tall bouncer-guy, might not be healthy)

Usually my advice isn't good, but leave her to herself, we live in a globe full of people.



JustMe



O yeah, and if she is mad at you,do ont make things worse.



My 2.

 

[CommanderFluffy]

so lock?



yea heres some advice from me. and its probably been most said.





she's mad at you cause you told her a compliment. well then she is really messed up at the moment. also most times (and im only assumeing here) if she's in the age range of 14-18 most females will play with your heart. get hurt along the way. or find on good guy after many bad ones.



its hard to find girls by looks. i never found msfluffy till i was older. and it took me a while after many gf's. sure this girl may seem ok and ou like her. but do you really. does she have the same interests as you? heres a tip look for girls you can be friends with and get to know. hang out with them at malls or parks and have fun. then once your comfortable with knowing the girl you will also know if she is single or not and then you can ask her out.. its easyer and less painfull on both your parts to go on that course of action.



1 worry about school

2 worry about your armor

3 find a friend before the girlfriend.

 

[corby]

alright ive been in a very similar situation and believe me dude just forget about her. theres a girl out there way better for you. some good advice is "dont make someone a priority if they only make you an option"

















oh an P.S.

 

[kensai111]

For anyone having these kinds of problems Ask Chief, we made that section for this very reason



http://405th.com/?page_id=1325



Cheers,

Kensai

 

[Overlord Ian]

3 find a friend before the girlfriend.

This is probably the best advice possible. Me and my gf were best friends before we started dating, and we like the same exact things, we even act the same. And we're just a perfect match. The question is still do you like her? or just her looks?

 

[mc halo3]

damn ,i remember my problem ,it was much bigger than yours,yet very similar,i used to like this girl and she had a BF that cheated on her ahd she found out ,then my bestie knew i liked her and next thing i know he's with her, me and my bestie had this massive fight which ended up with me punching him in the face.now i don't even bother about girls ,i just focus on my studies because i've never cryed so much in my life other than that problem.my advice is to let her be stupid and let her BF play with her mind as she did with yours

 

[ArcherShadow]

These threads seem a bit disturbing and stalkerish to me.



She clearly does not want to date you. Absolutely nothing else is relevant. You don't even seem to be a close friend of her or to know her well. Leave the poor girl alone.