Spartan043
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dont you find that weird/interesting? 
Need some help
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ERADICATORofDTH
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Yea I'm in a bit of a situation myself. I like this girl but last year I went out with a girl that was freinds with her. It was going good but for some reason she broke up with me after a couple weeks. I asked her why and she wouldn't say. Now we are really good friends and she tells me that her friends pressured her into going out with me and then into breaking up with me. Her friends are psychos, except for this one other girl. I really want to ask her out but I'm afraid that if she says yes then she will get made fun of and forced to break up with me. So I don't really know what I am supposed to do.
Goosebot 5000
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Repeat after me...
"I've got 99 problems, but a bitch ain't one."
And there you go. So theres a girl that wont talk to you? Go talk to another! That saying "There are plenty of fish in the sea." is true. And for the most part, if one fish sees you baiting another fish, then it might spark more interest. Definitely dont worry about one girl.
if you really really do like this girl, i wouldnt wait for her to say anything to you. I would approach her first. The whole line about not being sure if you would want to be with her because the two of you would get teased was a bomb, but it didnt blow up anything beyond repair. Other people teasing you is no reason not to be with someone. If you got together, you enduring whatever comments from your peers would just be more of a testament to how much you like her. Especially if you just didnt let it bother you at all. Teasing is bull$#!T. Thats all. If you want it to stop, just tell them that you have a jug of pee that youve been saving up for 5 years, and youre not afraid to put it in a super soaker and let them see just how disgusting it is. Works every time.
Now, go get em killer.
"I've got 99 problems, but a bitch ain't one."
And there you go. So theres a girl that wont talk to you? Go talk to another! That saying "There are plenty of fish in the sea." is true. And for the most part, if one fish sees you baiting another fish, then it might spark more interest. Definitely dont worry about one girl.
if you really really do like this girl, i wouldnt wait for her to say anything to you. I would approach her first. The whole line about not being sure if you would want to be with her because the two of you would get teased was a bomb, but it didnt blow up anything beyond repair. Other people teasing you is no reason not to be with someone. If you got together, you enduring whatever comments from your peers would just be more of a testament to how much you like her. Especially if you just didnt let it bother you at all. Teasing is bull$#!T. Thats all. If you want it to stop, just tell them that you have a jug of pee that youve been saving up for 5 years, and youre not afraid to put it in a super soaker and let them see just how disgusting it is. Works every time.
Now, go get em killer.
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JoobiDoob said:
agreed
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Overlord Ian
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Good luck, the whole concept of dating is foriegn to me, so I guess I am of no use to you.
Bloodl3tt3r
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In before lock, I'd share my experiences.
Basically, becoming friends first helps greatly. All the girls who I've gotten to around this stage said that they want to remain friends if/(most likely)when we break up, and with my one ex, that's gone (mostly) well. However, sometimes it'll just happen with say, a random girl that you happen to meet in a class or whatever. Like, with me, the current thing I've got going on happened quite by chance. First day of school, in math class, the teacher seats me behind a girl who I've known existed since like 6th grade but never talked to. Since she's the only girl near me, I invariably start talking to her. Something clicks, and six weeks later we're together, despite the protests of her friends and almost the rest of our grade (i'm not too popular. go figure).
So basically, it just happened, and nobody saw it coming. You just have to let things go the way they're going, and sooner or later it'll happen. Don't worry too much about it.
Also, way to uber-necro in your own thread. How'd you even find it again to post in it?
Basically, becoming friends first helps greatly. All the girls who I've gotten to around this stage said that they want to remain friends if/(most likely)when we break up, and with my one ex, that's gone (mostly) well. However, sometimes it'll just happen with say, a random girl that you happen to meet in a class or whatever. Like, with me, the current thing I've got going on happened quite by chance. First day of school, in math class, the teacher seats me behind a girl who I've known existed since like 6th grade but never talked to. Since she's the only girl near me, I invariably start talking to her. Something clicks, and six weeks later we're together, despite the protests of her friends and almost the rest of our grade (i'm not too popular. go figure).
So basically, it just happened, and nobody saw it coming. You just have to let things go the way they're going, and sooner or later it'll happen. Don't worry too much about it.
Also, way to uber-necro in your own thread. How'd you even find it again to post in it?
Jax Archillies
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not to be the cynical moron of the group, but ...AGAIN?
asking for relationship advice on the internet is like asking for financial advice from your rabbit. (or breeding if that makes more sense)
asking for relationship advice on the internet is like asking for financial advice from your rabbit. (or breeding if that makes more sense)
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