Girly Advice

[Master Chef]

Ok sorry to resurrect this thing but I need some advice. Im not inexperienced in relationships but somthing recentley happened and its really thrown me off balanace...

In a musical theater program I'm part of I met this girl. Her and I both immediately got along and from talking later we realized we had SO much in common. It was almost creepy but we could relate in so many ways it was beautiful. Anyway, I realized as the week went on I could not stop thinking about her. I just felt so excited and I realized how much I really liked her. I've never really felt this strongly about someone before. Now, I am 70% percent she feels the same way about me, but I'm afraid to ask her because should I be wrong it would make the theater program very awkward, and really throw a wrench in things. I don't want to loose this opportunity, but I'm hesitant about the consequences of rejection. Should I ask her? I can't fall asleep sometimes because I can't wait to talk to her the next day. I just want to wait for it.

Thanks,

Austin

 

[volcom]

if i were you i ewould ask her to the movies then go somewhere for lunch after because then you gfet to do something fun like watch a scary or funny movie then when you go somewhere to eat then you get to talk to here and learn more about her movies and lunchis the best way to go

 

[Nick99994]

give her a copy of Halo
duh

 

[Master Chef]

I'm not really worried about what to do with her, I've gone on plenty of dates to know that. I want to know if its worth asking her.

 

[23Magnum]

I'm not really worried about what to do with her, I've gone on plenty of dates to know that. I want to know if its worth asking her.

If I were you, I'd just give it a little time. Hang out like you have been, and if you still feel the same way in a couple weeks, give it a shot.
I'll tell you this, it's the holiday season and everyone likes to be with someone around this time of the year. Even if you don't figure this out come Christmas, New Years is the next best thing. Sometimes jumping the gun can only make things weird as you yourself have pondered. Just remember one thing, be yourself. Things like these should just happen naturally. Also, if she wants you to ask her out, she won't let you know. Most girls never let you know anything straight forward. Which for someone like me, who's very up front and blunt, is a pain in the butt.

Point is take your time, feel it out, then make your move. Good luck, hope things work out well for you.

-Magnum

 

[AoBfrost]

Ok sorry to resurrect this thing but I need some advice. Im not inexperienced in relationships but somthing recentley happened and its really thrown me off balanace...

In a musical theater program I'm part of I met this girl. Her and I both immediately got along and from talking later we realized we had SO much in common. It was almost creepy but we could relate in so many ways it was beautiful. Anyway, I realized as the week went on I could not stop thinking about her. I just felt so excited and I realized how much I really liked her. I've never really felt this strongly about someone before. Now, I am 70% percent she feels the same way about me, but I'm afraid to ask her because should I be wrong it would make the theater program very awkward, and really throw a wrench in things. I don't want to loose this opportunity, but I'm hesitant about the consequences of rejection. Should I ask her? I can't fall asleep sometimes because I can't wait to talk to her the next day. I just want to wait for it.

Thanks,

Austin

Cant find out till you ask her, she aint gonna just come up one day and say "I love you", your the man, make the move, ask the girl, if you are really sure she feels the same for you, tell her how you feel, and ask her how she feels about you.

If you go on and ask "do you like me" first, she will think you only like her cause she likes you, which is like...confusing.....so tell her your feelings first, I'd meet her in person somewhere, wether it's school or hanging out....or the theater program.....go for it, dont be afraid of rejection, I was afraid to tell a girl once I liked her, then things happened, and....I never got the chance to...so you better do it or...there wont be a second chance.

 

[Vexona]

Chef,

You definately like her and it sounds like she likes you. Looks like you have a lot in common and she is single, so I say ask her out.

When I first met my fiancee', he came up to me after a game and stepped right into a mud puddle while he was asking me on a date.

It may not go exactly as you plan but, nothing risked, nothing gained.

 

[Ice198]

This is just me, but if your in school then and you have friends that are girls, ask them to ask her who she likes, and theyll usually get the answer for you, thats what works for me. And if she likes you then just ask her. always works when i use that method. (unless they dont like me back) - Ice

 

[Master Chef]

Thanks SOOO much for the help guys (and girls!). I basically know that she likes me, even though she hasn't told me (when you talk with a girl from 11PM to 6AM a couple of nights...it gives it away). I'm just waiting for the right time to ask her out when I can say it to her face (I'm not into the whole -Yo u wana see a movie like nxt week? txt me bac- or the friend chain/telephone thing). About the holidays thing that Magnum talked about...very true, but I have made mistakes like that before. She and I actually talked about that a bit coincidentally. We also both agree on waiting to see if you really know the person before you start something, because frankly the epidemic of "one weekers" in high school's today is not healthy. It devalues what a more serious relationship is. And Magnum, she is just blunt enough, where if I asked her something, shed tell me straight

I've decided to wait a bit longer, because I recently (one month ago) ended a rather pointless relationship that I had been in for almost a year (I know not very healthy. It was sorta stupid: staying together mostly out of habit). I need time so that my mind can clearly delineate things into two separate relationships.

Thanks again,

Austin

 

[Fragclone]

please dont bump up old topics... thank you.

 

[Ares]

It's my topic and I say it's A-OK.

 

[Darth Malevelus]

First and foremost I would say treat her like a person, work on being friends first, the rest will come later, if its gonna come at all. Dont be worried about anything else.
Dont try to get any angles, or try to put up an act, be yourself, if anything worth happening is gonna happen it will happen naturally.

The minute you try to put up an act, or not be yourself, your setting yourself up for failure. Remember anything worth anything takes time, just like your costume.

You want her to like your for you, not an act, or an angle you tried.

Be yourself, and look forward to making a good new friend, the rest will come in time. Just be patient!

 

[andrew]

Ok, Next situation. My life.

I'm 15 and am a sophomore. I am in intro to art with alllllllllll freshman. I sat at the table with a popular group of freshmans rather reluctantly at first. We warmed up and now we're all great friends. One of them is a VERY hot girl and we're pretty good friends. Being really hot obviously a lot of other guys like her. Next semester (right here after new year) I am in a new art class and she is the only person from my old art class coming to the new one. Me her and a room full of artsy weirdos. So anyway, what do you all presume i do in my voyage to get her to go out with me. I'm not a weirdo, creepy looking, or nerdy. Here is a pic of her (on the left with the brown hair)

And heres me. Sorry for looking so deranged. my brother snapped this when i was like laying on my bed after working out. scared the crap out of me to. only pic i have right now though.

 

[Spartan 270]

My advice is don't start choking up to the point where you can't speak, and don't blabber on about stuff.

 

[marioknight92]

most girls are very weight conscious, Mcd's would be a bad idea, i suggest movies because if you get her into the habit of going to movies with you, you can start doing things after the movie, like eating, and hanging out, the movie is just so that she'll start to feel comfortable around you and would open up more when u took her out to lunch or whatever. walking up to a girl and asking her out to Mcd's is not going to get you anywhere.

take her to a coffee shop and sit there and talk

 

[Keegan]

Well, all I can really say is, he, cannot belive I am saying this but, girls dig the armor....