Sniperbaas
Well-Known Member
Hey everyone, I'm kinda in a little bit of a dilemma here, and I could use some advice/suggestions.
Before I begin, it'd be best if you knew a bit about me. I'm a dancer (yes, I'm straight) , and for the past few years, I've been dancing (duo pieces) with a girl who is a year younger than me. I'll just call her Ash. As this may be my last year that I dance (studio going to pieces, no more good teachers, etc), last summer, I decided to do another piece/duo with another girl. She is dating somebody else, so there wasn't much of a problem with her. However, Ash seemed a little bit surprised/broken up about it. Soon after, Ash asked me if we were dating. (We'd gone on dates, but nothing really serious.) At the time, I had a full time job (11hr workdays etc), and so I stupidly said no... She went on to date a couple of different guys at our school and ended up breaking up with all of them. I still regret not dating her, when I had the chance, but there are a couple of problems. First, I'm not sure how much she really wants to spend any time with me. (She said that she's done with guys....) My mom doesn't really like her, for she says that Ash is a bit insecure...
Enter the second half of my dilemma, in one of my classes this semester I "re-met" a girl who I had known before. She also re-took up dance, so I saw her fairly often. For posterity, I'll call her Tanya. Because Ash was dating other guys etc, I decided to try to start a friendship with Tanya and see how that goes. We get along really well in our classes (both at dance and school), but she doesn't seem to want to have any form of a relationship outside of those two activities. This may be because, she thinks that I want more than a friendship, or just to date her for a little bit.
That's kinda the spot I'm in, and I was wondering if anybody had any reasonable advice....
Cheers.....
Before I begin, it'd be best if you knew a bit about me. I'm a dancer (yes, I'm straight) , and for the past few years, I've been dancing (duo pieces) with a girl who is a year younger than me. I'll just call her Ash. As this may be my last year that I dance (studio going to pieces, no more good teachers, etc), last summer, I decided to do another piece/duo with another girl. She is dating somebody else, so there wasn't much of a problem with her. However, Ash seemed a little bit surprised/broken up about it. Soon after, Ash asked me if we were dating. (We'd gone on dates, but nothing really serious.) At the time, I had a full time job (11hr workdays etc), and so I stupidly said no... She went on to date a couple of different guys at our school and ended up breaking up with all of them. I still regret not dating her, when I had the chance, but there are a couple of problems. First, I'm not sure how much she really wants to spend any time with me. (She said that she's done with guys....) My mom doesn't really like her, for she says that Ash is a bit insecure...
Enter the second half of my dilemma, in one of my classes this semester I "re-met" a girl who I had known before. She also re-took up dance, so I saw her fairly often. For posterity, I'll call her Tanya. Because Ash was dating other guys etc, I decided to try to start a friendship with Tanya and see how that goes. We get along really well in our classes (both at dance and school), but she doesn't seem to want to have any form of a relationship outside of those two activities. This may be because, she thinks that I want more than a friendship, or just to date her for a little bit.
That's kinda the spot I'm in, and I was wondering if anybody had any reasonable advice....
Cheers.....