SpartanForever
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SPARTAN II said:She broke up with you on AIM? Damn, that sucks... that's just as bad as breaking up over the phone (which happened to me once, LOL).
Personally, I've never been one to go on the "rebound". I've never felt the need for it, and I guess have never felt so hurt and vulnerable that it was necessary.
Yes, I've been terribly hurt and vulnerable at times like that, but I've never resorted to trying to find temporary, false security in getting involved with someone else right away.
I mean, the way I see it is, why do that to yourself?
You know it's just an attempt to retain the same sort of intimacy and security you just lost with someone very close to you, and as you eventually realize nothing about it is real, that relationship will very quickly come to an end as well.
So, why set yourself up for possible further heartache when you don't need to?
I apologize if anyone thinks I'm being accusational here. I'm not pointing fingers or anything, that's just the way I see it...
In the long run the rebound didnt turn out so bad... if you know what i mean... haha jk. We were friends before and she had always wanted to get closer so i figured now is the time to try something/someone different in my life... but it wasnt right for me. And no accusation taken.
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